Empty Nest Empires with Tami and Lisa

In this deeply personal conversation about legacy, grief, and what it means to be remembered by the people closest to you, Tami and Lisa reflect on family loss, caregiving, dementia, and the strange mix of laughter and tears that comes with mourning through the memories.
Tami opens with the idea of “grieving myself” and connects it to legacy, asking what we want to leave behind and how we want to be remembered. She shares memories of her parents, who died within ten weeks of each other after 71 years of marriage, and reflects on the tenderness, anticipation, and emotional weight surrounding their final months.
The two friends explore the question of writing your own eulogy and how naming the qualities you want remembered can shape how you live now. The conversation turns to the difference between how casual acquaintances and loved ones remember us, with emphasis on the people who truly know our whole selves.
Lisa shares that she lost her husband Dan to dementia just over a month ago, after a six-year illness, and describes the long, ongoing grief that begins even before death. She and the Tami discuss “double mourning” with dementia, grieving both the person and the relationship as memory and personality change.
A story about crying at Target becomes a turning point in the discussion about emotional permission, especially for boys and children who are often taught to hide sadness. They compare grief to waves, unpredictable and cyclical, with small moments sometimes hitting harder than expected.
The episode closes with a powerful reminder that grief intensity often matches the depth of love, and that memories can eventually shift from painful to comforting.*Please follow and share this podcast with your friends. And leaving a review helps us get found by more listeners. Thanks so much! Tami & Lisa

Tami Romani and Lisa Michele unpack the fitness pillar of Empty Nest Empires, focusing on how movement changes with age and why the goal should be joy, not punishment. They share personal stories from their 20s through midlife, plus practical ways to build consistency without trying to recreate the workouts of decades past.In this episode, Tami and Lisa discuss how fitness needs shift over time, how injuries and health scares change priorities, and why small, sustainable movement habits matter more than extreme routines. They also talk through realistic options like walking, stretching, pickleball, simple weight work, and short daily movement sessions.

Tami Romani and Lisa Michele kick off the reboot of Empty Nest Empires with a conversation about one of the show’s six pillars: fun. They explore how creativity shows up across life stages, from handmade businesses and sewing to knitting, doodling, gardening, and grandparenting. The episode focuses on how to reconnect with creative joy, even when life gets busy or confidence has faded.

In this episode, Tami and Lisa challenge the negative language often attached to midlife and reframe it as a powerful, meaningful season of life. They share a funny and revealing story about thesaurus.com labeling “midlife” as “the wrong side of 40,” and use that as a jumping-off point to explore how language shapes identity, especially for women navigating their 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond.
Tami outlines a new framework for the show built around six pillars:
Fitness
Finance
Friendships
Family
Faith
Fun
These pillars are presented as connected parts of a whole, not separate buckets. The episode emphasizes that each one matters, and that different seasons of life will bring different priorities to the top.
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Empty Nest Empires: Reclaiming Empire, Finding Joy, and Building Community
Tami Romani and Lisa Michele are relaunching Empty Nest Empires with a candid, funny, and deeply personal conversation about midlife, empty nesting, grief, joy, and what comes next. In this episode, they also reframe the word EMPIRE into something positive and practical for women building a meaningful life, identity, and community in midlife and beyond.
Tami and Lisa talk about how EMPIRE can be redefined, and what each letter represents to them personally.
E - Empathy in action
M - Midlife as our launch pad
P - Purpose over perfection
I - Inclusion as a non-negotiable
R - Radically supportive space
E - Empowerment through community
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We couldn't let another week go by without our own tribute to Dolly. What an amazing woman! Tami begins by calling her the queen of reinventing herself, but after talking through her life and accomplishments, it's clear she always knew who she was and focused on adding to her life, not pivoting. 
We hope you will enjoy our chat, and please let us know what your favorite Dolly memory is.
Highlights:00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections on Dolly Parton04:29 Dolly's Early Life and Career Milestones09:52 Dolly's Philanthropy and Impact on Education12:30 Dolly's Reinvention and Legacy17:32 Dolly's Approach to Life and Politics23:45 Final Thoughts on Dolly's Influence and Legacy
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After trying to reboot, restart, and reorganize this podcast several times, Tami finally realized what was missing: a cohost! And not just any cohost, THE cohost she had been talking to about this for two years. Finally together for their first episode, we hope you will enjoy this re-introduction of the Empty Nest Empires podcast and more importantly, that you will laugh along with us! Tami and Lisa
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It was a BIG mistake to tell you a whole year ago that I was back and relaunching this podcast - I was in the middle of breast cancer treatment and we had plans to sell our house and move! What in the world was I thinking?? Then the California wildfires happened (we did not lose our home) and life changed dramatically. Finally coming up for air - so here's an update and a vision for where this podcast hopes to go from here.
Thanks for being here!
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I'm excited for what's ahead for us! Let's make this next season our BEST season! 
xo Tami

A funny thing happened on the way to a pandemic... I lost my mojo and had an overwhelming bit of chaos take over for a few years. But we are back, and while my Voicing Your Brand podcast will be focusing on the business of using your voice for success and how to be the voice that is heard on the noisy internet, this special place in Podcastland will be reserved for more storytelling. Yours and mine. I can't wait to share and also hear from you! I've missed you... let's get re-acquainted, shall we?

Ernestine Tebon-Spreemann had her first experience with making extra money by selling mangoes at age 8 in Camaroon, West Africa. She has been hooked on the side hustle ever since. Fast forward to now, and she has transformed her failing brick and mortar consignment shop into an online shopping experience on the Poshmark app. Still working her 9 to 5 job, Ernestine believes everyone can and should have a way to make money on the side. In this interview, she will inspire you to find things in your own closet to begin a side hustle selling what you no longer need or wear. Who knows? This may develop into a great income, or even a full time reselling business! (FYI, Ernestine makes about $1,000 for every $200 she spends at a thrift store.) You might want to download the Poshmark App so you can follow along while we chat about this. Ernestine tells us all her tips - including how to price your items, how to prepare them to sell - and how she catalogs and stores over 800 items in her very small house… and how she can find them again after they have sold! Let’s learn how to do this together! Join the Side Hustle Challenge going on RIGHT NOW here: tamiromani.com/hustle Download the Poshmark App here & use my code, BLONDEMONIUM for an extra $10 Connect with Ernestine on her Poshmark Shop, Love That!: https://poshmark.com/closet/lovethat Podcast listeners save 20% in Ernestine's Poshmark Store by making her an offer of 20% off and mentioning TAMI in the comments. Ernestine on Instagram: @lovethatposh https://www.instagram.com/lovethatposh/ and @ernestinespreemann https://www.instagram.com/ernestinespreemann/ Ernestine on Facebook: Love That! Designer Consignments https://www.facebook.com/Lovethatdesignerconsignments Reach Ernestine by Email: lovethatconsignments@gmail.com Check out Tami’s Poshmark store here: https://poshmark.com/closet/blondemonium